Several have asked for a copy of Tom's service. Thanks to my nephew Beau - I have one. Tom was the "techy" person in our family - this kind of stuff is not intuitive to me. So - Cindi ( our daughter) is going to post the link to the service in a comment / response to this post!
If you are able to watch the service - I hope you will feel a sense of celebrating Tom's arrival in his heavenly home.
I am still somewhat in a state of shock with all that as occurred, but my children, church, family , and friends have been so supportive. I will be fine and someday will claim victory over this hurt in my heart. God is faithful to his children!
Debbie